Author: Breegan Jane

Boys in Fur Coats: Motherhood Surprises

What do you want to be when you grow up?  I’m sure all of us can remember sitting in an elementary school classroom and being asked that very question by a teacher. If you caught my feature on Mini Magazine last week, you likely saw that as a kid I wanted to be a neonatal nurse. Once I learned of how many tragic experiences those professionals encounter in that career, I quickly changed my mind. However, the one thing that never quite left my head and heart was motherhood. I have always been maternal, and I could not wait to have my own littles running around! A recent trip to New York City reminded me of the plans I made for my motherhood journey way before I became a mom. I could have never predicted the surprises life had in store for me. I’m happy to share a few of them with you in today’s blog.

Pregnant With Expectation

Like so many expectant mothers, I was ecstatic when I discovered I was pregnant. Several dreams floated around in my mind about what kind of mom I’d be, and what experiences I’d have with my future child(ren). I won’t lie to you. I wanted girls. With both of my pregnancies I predicted I was having girls. 

As you can see from the above photo, I was very wrong, lol. I was blessed with two adorable baby boys. While I was thrilled to have my healthy bouncing babies, I assumed I would have to mourn some of the wishes I previously had when I thought I’d be a girl mom. What life showed me was that motherhood is a journey equally full of anticipation and shock. I was about to get one of the biggest unexpected lessons of my life.

A Fashionable Trip to the Big Apple

In mid April of this year I set out on a work trip that would span the course of several weeks. I headed to the East Coast to participate in an event called Design on a Dime. I brought my boys with me for this trip to New York City, and they had a blast. We traveled to New York, then to High Point, North Carolina, and then back to New York, so you can imagine what our luggage was like! Because I knew it would be chilly both on the plane and at our destination, I had the boys each wear one of my fur coats. This proved to be extremely helpful when it came to saving space in our suitcases! But, it drew my attention to something much bigger than packing efficiency. 

During our time in New York, the boys and I (and even their grandmother!) kept busy with several fun adventures. They visited the Statue of Liberty, saw a few shows, and even took a carriage ride through the city. I watched as they walked down those Manhattan streets, owning them as if they were their own personal catwalk. These kids proudly wore my fur coats without thinking anything of it, and they rocked the look! While the kids got to explore the city with grandma, mommy had to work. I took a few meetings and met with companies I would be partnering with. In one of those meetings I selected a few jewelry pieces that I wore for a photoshoot. Later that night when I arrived back at our hotel, my boys took notice of the accessories and decided they wanted to wear them the next day. 

Tossing Gender Norms

You’re probably wondering what any of these escapades have to do with my motherhood experience. Well, when I was pregnant and wishing for a girl, I pictured matching “mommy-and-me” ensembles, sharing my jewelry, and cute dates to the nail salon. Never in a million years would I have imagined I’d be walking through New York with my sons donning bejeweled tiger and cheetah necklaces and fur coats! 

Last year during a visit to Lake Arrowhead, my sons and I stopped into the cutest little eccentric boutique. It was the kind of store that sold “fabulous grandma chic”, and we were all about it! Kingsley found a cool electric blue jacket that he loved and tried it on. I heard the sales associate tell him to “stop playing around and take it off.” I guess she thought it was inappropriate for a little boy to wear something originally designed for a woman. But, fashion isn’t about gender.

The mama bear in me emerged, ready to protect my innocent Kingsley. I told him he could have it if he liked it. Both of my boys left that store with jackets they liked that day. We had the blue suede jacket and tie-dyed jacket hemmed so they would fit the kids, and both boys proudly wear them each chance they get. Our time in N.Y. made me reminisce on that encounter, and I realized that my little family has never played by the traditional gender rules. We don’t subscribe to that.

Unexpected Adventures in Motherhood

Do your kids shock you with their interests? Mine do, daily. They love trips to the nail salon. I don’t think they’re ever as quiet as they are when they’re getting pampered. I sit between them while we get pedicures. Kingsley gets no polish, but Kensi likes green on his toenails. These were experiences I thought I’d only have with daughters. After all, when I was pregnant no one was talking about sharing necklaces with their sons! Now, we regularly see bold looks on men at red carpet events and parties. No one bats an eye when Steven Tyler wears eyeliner. It wasn’t strange when Prince wore ruffles and heels. We just accepted their avant-garde style. Motherhood, and more specifically being a mom to two boys has taught me lessons about my own preconceived notions and biases around gender. I didn’t expect to have boys who love accessorizing with mommy’s pearls and taking care of their own jewelry collection! But that’s the beauty of it all. Life creates opportunities for you to have the moments you’re supposed to have, even if they don’t occur the way you envisioned them.

Creating Connectedness

Our time in New York was amazing, and it sparked so much internal reflection. When I was dreaming of all these sweet moments I wanted to have with a little girl, I was so focused on those occasions being specific to moms and daughters, that I couldn’t open myself up to the possibility of what I have now. I realize it was never about gender at all! Instead, I was searching for connection points with my kids. I wanted to share passions and interests with them. That’s something I do today, on a regular basis with my seven and nine year old sons. I’m so grateful that life worked out this way. Turns out, I needed exactly what I received. So, if you’re an expectant mom, just be sure to allow things to unfold. Motherhood is full of surprises, and you’re built for every single one of them.

 

Experiences Over Things

I document everything. Like, everything. I think you’ll find that this is a pretty typical occurrence amongst mothers and parents in general. We don’t want to miss a thing! So I’m always taking photos and videos of the things my boys and I do. I like to share bits and pieces of our lives online with my followers and friends who don’t live nearby. So, you’ll see on my social media all of the fun things my family enjoys doing together. I love being able to look through instagram and reminiscence on our adventures. When I think about it, what I love the most has nothing to do with the tangible gifts I’ve bought the boys. It’s always the experiences we’ve had. That’s why I’m a huge advocate of gifting your children experiences over things. Let’s dive into that in today’s blog.

Memories Make the Best Souvenirs

I think it’s natural to want to give your kids the world. That’s why Christmas morning is such an event. Parents always want to see their kids’ faces light up with joy as they tear into all the new toys and gadgets. And, don’t get me wrong, I understand. I like finding cool gift ideas that my sons will love. However, I have come to realize that when I look back on the moments that make me smile and bring me joy, they’ve all been so much more about the experiences we shared than some item I purchased. In fact, my kids hardly even remember some of those expensive gifts they received from last year.

Parents, think about the times you hosted an extravagant party for your kid’s birthday. Maybe you went all out on personalized decorations, balloons and goodie bags for all the guests. You bought the kid a cute outfit, arranged catering from a delicious restaurant and even designed animated invitations to entice all their little friends to attend! But, in the end, all the kids only talked about how much fun they had in the bouncy house. Nobody ate much of the fancy food. Nobody remarked about the invitations. And not a single person seemed to notice how your kid’s new shoes perfectly coordinated with his shirt and socks. But everyone is STILL talking about how much fun the petting zoo was, to this very day. That’s because people might forget the gift you gave, but they always remember how you made them feel. That, my friend, is the power of an experience.

Mom and Me

When I was about 11 years old, my mom and I visited San Francisco for a weekend and we spent time in the neighborhood of Haight-Ashbury. I have written before about how amazing of an experience that was. It was one of the first times I felt like diversity wasn’t the exception, it was the rule. I had such a great time picking out a fancy dress and frolicking around town with my mom. I wouldn’t recognize until much later how impactful that moment in time was and how it would shape me. That trip was one of several experiences I had with my parents that I cherish, and it inspires me to go out of my way to create those types of adventures with my boys.

I like to involve my kids in various parts of my work that interest them. They’ve gone on many work trips with me where we can schedule fun tours and activities. Just this year we traveled to North Carolina and New York City for work projects, and the boys had a blast. We saw a Broadway play, the Statue of Liberty and they even took a carriage ride through the city with their grandma! Recently, I got great tickets to see Beyonce with my boys. Yes. You read that right. I took my sons to see Queen Bey, and we danced and sang until we were exhausted! HIGHLY recommend. The concert and showmanship were superb, but what really mattered was how electric everything felt. My sons are still reliving all the fun we had. I just know they’ll always remember the exciting evening we enjoyed together.

I want my kids to look back at various stages of their lives with fun stories to tell and warm fuzzy feelings. My hope is that I’ve invested my time and money in experiences that made them feel seen, valued and celebrated. Experiences last so much more than any gift I can give. The time we spend together is precious, and that makes it worth it for me. 

Experiences Broaden Horizons

We talk quite a bit about travel here on my little piece of the internet. My wanderlust began when I was a kid, and I think it’s safe to say I’ve passed that onto my boys! We regularly take trips to various parts of our country and beyond. Now, while I love a good staycation when I need to unwind nearby, my heart and soul crave international trips! One of my favorite experiences to have with Kingsley and Kensi are trips to different countries. You already likely know Ibiza is my favorite place on earth. I don’t think there’s a prettier island. But, I love Spain for more than just the teal waters. I love that my boys get to see how other cultures live life. We recently spent a week in Croatia on a yacht, and while most of the time was occupied by fun watersports, we also enjoyed getting out to explore the area and learn more about the country. Our travels are full of educational opportunities.

Now don’t get me wrong. You don’t have to board a plane and fly across the world to have amazing experiences. There is so much to learn by even visiting different states! I’m a California girl through and through. I love living in my state and city because of all the diversity. I can still tell you that going to other states can be eye opening. A few years ago I needed to travel to Austin, Texas to film a TV show, and we were slated to be there for just over a month. Well, that gave my boys time to get signed up for horseback riding lessons and golf lessons. They had such a great time, but they learned more than any of us anticipated. I remember being shocked at the way the instructors used positive but stern reinforcement and discipline. We would soon realize that cultural elements were at play. The South was certainly different, and rich in its own social norms and traditions. Those weeks gave my boys an opportunity to experience the differences in various regions in the U.S.

Finding Fun in France

Right before Mother’s Day my boys and I boarded a plane to Paris, France. We were en route to Spain, and it only made sense to spend a bit of time in one of the most popular tourist locales in the world. We were fortunate enough to get reservations at Madame Brasserie, a restaurant located inside the Eiffel Tower. It was particularly special because it was Mothers Day in the U.S. The boys loved walking around snapping photos and reading about the history of the Parisian landmark. We enjoyed a delicious and decadent meal over stunning views of the city, and I couldn’t help being overwhelmed with gratitude that I get to give my boys these kinds of experiences. They were genuinely fascinated by all the facts they learned about the city, and they also got to put their gentlemanly habits and manners to use!

Listen, we sometimes tend to focus on the really big moments in life. We want to give generously and make people’s day with beautiful gifts. I get it, because I love that too. But, the most important parts of life are about the ways we spend our time and the people we spend it with. Whether we’re learning, traveling, celebrating a momentous occasion or simply hanging out over coffee, the experience is what matters. We’re all looking to feel something. I believe it’s more than worthwhile to put our energy and time into those facets of our lives. I’m becoming more and more intentional with the experiences I want to have with my family and friends and even a few I enjoy solo. We can’t always take things with us into every stage of life, but we will always have the memories. 

The Value of Homeschool Hybrid Programs

John Dewey was once quoted as saying, “Education is not preparation for life; education is life itself.” Years ago our parents hoped the lessons presented in textbooks would set us up for the best careers and life plans available. Now that many of us are parents, we want the same thing for our kids. I know I do. More than that, though, it has been important to me to ensure they have the right learning environment and applications that cater to all I feel will be important to their development, based on who I know my kids to be. Wanting a more deliberate hand in that, I opted for my boys to become active in a homeschool hybrid academic program. Here are the benefits of this decision I appreciate as a parent and mom.

Life Skills vs. A Traditional Curriculum

My sons enjoy being a part of a homeschool hybrid program versus a traditional academic curriculum, and I love it for them. One of the primary reasons I appreciate it is because I get to have more control over what my children learn. Yes, the classic “reading, writing and ‘rithmetic” are all important to a child’s learning experience, but there are other things I feel are just as important that aren’t highlighted as much.

I want my sons to enjoy their childhood years. However, I really want them to be prepared for many of the bigger adult decisions they will have to make, also. Take budgeting, for example. Being financially aware is a daily task for everyone in the “glorious” world of adulting, but many traditional school curricula don’t teach foundational principles of finances. My sons’ homeschool hybrid program involves taking financial literacy classes that explain the importance of saving, understanding liabilities and assets, and so much more. I’m sure many parents are reading this thinking young kids won’t get such concepts. But they do! Ironically, they’re learning more than some adults do in their lifetime! This is the value of being able to have a say in what my kids learn.

Along with practical skills, I want both of my boys to develop strong social skills. From my own experiences, and from observing my son’s conventional classes, the traditional school environment tends to focus more on independent work, sitting at desks and relegating kids to being receivers of information from one source: the teacher. While there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that, I realize my sons learn best in unconventional ways and settings. Our hybrid learning program includes a great deal of social group learning, which I think is an important part of being a successful adult. Collaboration is at the heart of my profession, as well as many others. I think it should be emphasized more in foundational learning courses. Plus, the lessons and activities in our homeschool hybrid program allow students a great deal of hands-on applications, exploring nature, and moving around. It’s not necessary, but it helps to facilitate more meaningful experiences for my boys. They appreciate it, and so do I.

Flexibility in Schedule

My job is unconventional in several ways. Television hosting has me traveling across the nation and sometimes overseas. The hours I work as an interior designer can run the gamut from the wee hours of the morning to the late hours of the night. And many other professional responsibilities may have me working in foreign lands quite often. The average parent would be concerned about kids traveling and falling behind in their coursework if they were in this situation. Because I use a homeschool hybrid program that is extremely flexible, I don’t worry at all. I can take my boys with me!

We all learned how useful virtual applications were during the pandemic. Well, they still work post-pandemic! My boys are able to take their schoolwork virtually anywhere! It’s not uncommon to see me with my sons in an airport, them with their headphones on and computers open ready to work away. We’ve used airport lounges to get schoolwork done, Market events, poolside cabanas, you name it! Plus, the homeschool hybrid model allows me to ease any frustration or worry about absences, potential learning gaps due to missed classes, or their retention of information. Though they don’t always travel with me, they are able to, and that’s a big plus in my book.

Extracurricular Activities

While traditional schools offer an array of extracurricular activities for kids to enjoy, my talented two have different ideas of how they want to enhance their creative minds. This is another way homeschool hybrid programs greatly benefit my boys and me.

Both of my sons have figuratively dipped their toes in various activities, including, surfing, soccer, basketball, and gardening. But their current favorite extracurricular activities have to do with their love of music. So, they’re taking a few classes centered around that: voice, piano and guitar lessons, to name a few. They’re also taking DJ lessons, which they’re smitten by. I haven’t found any traditional schools that offer DJ lessons, and that’s yet another reason why I’m glad I chose this route for my sons.

Music classes offer so many different personal enrichment benefits for children. They help build patience, confidence, and coordination, among other things. But music enrichment is also good for helping to develop social skills, teamwork, creative thinking, and so much more. Will they be the next Pavarotti or Diplo? I can’t say. But I know they will have had the experience and will be able to make a sound decision about that part of themselves they want to develop. It’s so self-empowering, and I love that.

Not Better or Worse…Just Different

Please don’t mistake my decision to homeschool my sons with a statement I haven’t made. There’s absolutely NOTHING WRONG with traditional public and private schools. Millions of people have gone through state or national requirements for public education and have been extremely successful. It’s just that I know my boys, and I understand where traditional programs don’t necessarily cater to THEM in some areas. Hopefully your takeaway will be to assess your children’s needs and make a decision for yourself what would work best for them. If you want to give a homeschool hybrid program a try with your kids, I highly encourage it. You might find it’s just the right fit for your little learners!

 

Patterns and Prints: Mastering the Mix

I can’t count the number of times I’ve heard someone express their reluctance with mixing and matching patterns and prints. Look, I get it. Bold colors and bold design choices can be intimidating, but they don’t have to be! I created the most gorgeous line of fabrics and wallpapers with Clarke & Clarke Interiors featuring everything from lush solids to striking tropical prints and even a modern take on animal print! I visited the Kravet workspace in Basking Ridge to show you how we take the guesswork out of patterns and prints so you can master the mix!

Find Inspiration in the Story 

Start with something you love. There are a ton of fabrics to choose from. Go to what immediately draws your eye. Nothing is too colorful or vivid. This is the time to lean all the way into your maximalist dreams! The Breegan Jane x Clarke & Clarke collection is featured in the “New Collections” section of the store.

Different but Complementary

Next, you want to look for prints that are very different from each other, but complementary. I loved the way Pokot paired with Duma. Layer something unexpected. Remember, we’re telling a full and complete story. This is a great time to visit the “Modern Prints” section of the Kravet workspace.

Create Two Different Scale Stories

One of the most important parts of mixing patterns and prints is varying the scale. One should be smaller, and the other bigger. This will give dimension and interest without making the combination feel busy.

Unify With a Grounding Color

Now that you have something your heart loves, different patterns and scales, we need a grounding solid color. When you visit Kravet, you’ll notice the “Think Inside the Box” section. They make it so easy to create beauty! Select a couple solids, but consider different textures to keep it visually intriguing.

Don’t Be Afraid to Experiment

The Kravet workspace has all the space you need to spread out and truly explore your design story. Take advantage of the space and play around with everything that catches your eye. Remember, everything is customizable, so the sky’s the limit! Pull those samples.

 

From pillows to drapery to rugs and piping, Kravet has you covered. Come shop for your entire home and have fun with it. Create your story. I can’t wait to see what you dream up!

 

The Breegan Jane x SAVOY Lighting Collection!

I’m elated to announce the Breegan Jane x Savoy lighting collection that was formally introduced in January at Dallas Market’s Lightovation! The pieces in the Breegan Jane x Savoy collection are designed to saturate spaces with modern approachable luxury, while also creating an experience that mimics the euphoria of traveling to your favorite destinations. All details are thoughtfully and carefully composed and curated, culminating in a collection that is no less than sublime. 

The Magic of the Mediterranean 

Many of my new collections draw inspiration from the eternally charming Mediterranean region so you can bring the beauty home—no passport needed! Ibiza, Spain and the surrounding areas have long served as my muse. When I visit, I’m instantly immersed in what feels like comfortable, relaxed luxury. The shimmering teal waters, the creamy white buildings, and rich textures abound. The gift of what I do is in the power to capture a feeling with interior design and infuse a space with it. 

Allow me to show you just a few!

 

The Grecian

This charming cascade of branches is decorated with leaves crafted from stained natural coco shell pieces. The hand-crafted Champagne Mist finish adds a richness and texture that is sure to stun.

 

The Atlas

Dramatic, eye-catching olive branches shine in this organic look, which is finished by hand in Grecian Gold. Offered as a chandelier and a pendant. 

 

The Pharos

These golden-hued fixtures with a luxe sheen are easily statement makers in any space. Their coned shape feels welcoming and simultaneously elevated. The Pharos collection features pendants and chandeliers in various formats.

 

The Nomad

This stately fixture, reminiscent of a sun setting on a beautiful summer’s day, is elegance manifested. The nomad in all its linear glory is ideal for spaces that require larger fixtures and would be delightful in any room!

At the heart of light itself is its ability to show the magnificence of things which might otherwise appear…dull and lifeless. Lighting for the designer is an instrument used to create an immediate impression on those who enter any space. A significant part of the story your space tells as well as what it exudes is in the lighting choices. I’ve designed a line of inspired, exceptional fixtures that I can’t wait for you to experience.

We’re just getting started. There is SO much more to see in the Breegan Jane x Savoy collection, and I will be revealing even more pieces very soon! Please stay tuned, and follow me on all social media platforms to stay updated on everything. It’s going to be a wild and beautiful ride!

Liveable, Luxe, Layers

Designing a space that you love has a lot to do with the way it will make you feel. One of the most important parts of my design consultations involves talking to clients about the emotions they want to evoke with their homes. We can create the most incredible room that makes your jaw drop, but if you don’t feel good in the space, the design… well it’s flawed. So, what makes a space feel luxurious, but liveable? I think the key to mastering this every time is the use of layers! It’s a simple solution that many struggle to get just right. Let’s tackle layers with a few tips you can put into action right away.

Plant Power

If you haven’t figured it out yet, I’m a girl that loves using natural elements in my design work. I think people often believe luxe must always equal expensive or shiny. That couldn’t be further from the truth. Remember, we’re talking about the way a space makes you feel, right? That means YOU define luxury in your own terms. Several years ago when we were all enduring difficult lockdowns confined to our homes, we realized how much of a luxury being able to get outside truly was. So many of us craved the serenity found in nature. Things like the babbling of a brook, the whooshing of the wind through trees or the roaring of ocean waves all took on a greater meaning.

So, as I keep those things in mind, adding natural elements became essential when I wanted to give a space an air of tranquility. Plants are one of my absolute favorite ways to do that! Whether real or faux, adding plants to your space always elevates the design. I love mixing in faux greenery with real plants because when the two are side by side it tricks the eye, and you can’t tell which is which! Plants are an easy addition because they add layers without the worry of clashing with a particular color palette or design style. 

Add plants of different sizes and heights to your spaces. Put them in a corner that needs a little “extra something.” Add them to your entryway table or beside your fireplace. You will not only make the room feel luxurious and tranquil, it’ll feel inviting too!

Pattern Play

People hire designers like me all the time because they want a home that oozes sophistication and beauty. The truth is if you want those qualities in your spaces, a great place to start is by figuring out how you can add interest to any room. What can you do that will draw the eye in a thoughtful, intentional way? That’s where layers come into play! Determine your design style and select a base for it. Once your foundation is set, the fun begins. I can think of no better way to make a room pop than with varying patterns that all complement one another.

My fabrics and wallpapers line with Clarke & Clarke is brimming with gorgeous prints that feel traveled and curated. I know mixing prints and patterns can be a bit intimidating if you’ve never done it before, but hear me out. If you choose patterns in an array of sizes and in colors that work well together you’ll get a one-of-a-kind design that will stun. A solid couch with patterned throw pillows instantly becomes more interesting. When you want to add layers, think about your rugs, curtains, throw blankets and pillows. You don’t have to go big, just be calculated.

Textured Layers

Are your rooms feeling a bit…one note? It might be that everything in the space is too similar. Most designers would agree that the days of buying matching furniture sets are gone. Why is that? Well, because it can make your room feel like something out of a mass-produced store room. No one wants that. Incorporating pieces of various sizes, heights and colors makes a space feel custom. 

Textures do the same thing. Textures are layers that add luxury to a room. Take the photo above. A linen-blend fabric on the seating pairs exceptionally well with velvet throw pillows. That softness is balanced by the elegant stone work, a perfect choice to add another natural material to the space. But then, we go a step further with the sheen from the brass and lacquered side tables. When you look at this room, no one thing outshines the other. The pieces are equally beautiful and visually fascinating. The layers contribute to the intrigue. That’s the mark of great design.

Layers make a space feel liveable but luxurious. They give you a chance to put your own stamp on the design of a space. Adding layers personalizes a home and makes it unique. Ready to elevate your design? Use these tips to give it a fresh take. You’ll be amazed at what a few easy changes can do!

Capturing Nature’s Beauty: Fabrics and Wallpapers

Where do you find inspiration for your home design? If you’re like so many of us, you likely do a lot of scrolling online that leads down home interior rabbit holes. It’s fascinating to see all the ways people decorate and style their homes. Everyone has their own idea of what’s attractive and what feels good to the psyche. For me, incorporating a natural element will always bring a sense of serenity and relaxation to any space. It’s why I worked to capture the beauty of nature with my fabrics and wallpapers line. I believe there’s something for everyone, and I can’t wait to show you more!

Stunning Sunset Sights

No matter where I go in this world I will never cease to marvel at the beauty of a sunset! The gorgeous oranges, blues, cotton candy pinks and yellows make my heart sing. Mother Nature is truly an artist! When we were in the middle of creating our Clarke and Clarke fabrics and wallpapers line, I immediately knew there had to be a way to depict the allure of a sunset. Enter Nairobi!

Nairobi is a wide-width panel wallpaper that is, in a word, breathtaking. Remember those colors we were talking about earlier? This wallpaper blends them softly with expressive brushstrokes that culminate in the most immersive scene. If you’re looking for drama and artistry, this is it. I love the way Nairobi imagines the African horizon, and it makes for an amazing backdrop in any space.

Serengeti

So nice we had to do it twice, you can find Serengeti in both a wallpaper and a fabric. The fabric features an abstract design that is still grounded with an elemental quality. Serengeti explores the vibrancy of the vast African landscape with shifting patterns and a hazy harmony of colors. 

 

 

The fabric, available in four different colorways, has a ribbed definition and a delicate foil texture. It has been designed on the horizontal scale with a flame stitch technique, and trust me, the beauty is in the details! The wallpaper is just as dynamic. “Serengeti” means: endless plain. This design portrays the never-ending beauty of nature in a contemporary form.

The Grandeur of Greenery

When I’m asked how to instill a vibe of tranquility within a space, I almost always advise clients to use some sort of greenery (whether real or faux) in their designs. Plants just have an unmatched way of connecting us to nature in the most organic sense. If you’re looking to get those same feelings in a more unique way, fabrics and wallpapers should absolutely be on your radar!

Malindi

Luscious plant life takes the lead in this contemporary, nature-inspired design. Malindi is a woven jacquard in monochromatic colorways. This print somehow manages to evoke the beauty of greenery in a contemporary fashion. Malindi is especially beautiful on accent pillows. So whether you’re looking to spice up your otherwise neutral room, or maybe you need that perfect showstopper piece, Malindi with its thoughtfully placed varieties of palm designs makes the cut!

An Unlikely Combo

Malindi is named after a beach town in Kenya, and my, does it live up to its name! I loved meshing the glamor of a coastal LA rooftop with the terrain of one of my other favorite places. This wallpaper is abundant with lush greenery and tropical comfort. The palms feature subtle metallic highlights in the shadow of shapes which only make the modern touches that more elaborate. You can’t go wrong no matter the color you choose.

No green thumb? No problem! Adding nature’s beauty to your space has never been easier or more innovative! Wallpapers and fabrics are ideal methods for making a statement and transforming your home. Create the exact space YOU want to reside in, and saturate yourself in refinement. Be sure to tag me in photos on socials of what you get!

 

Mekuno Project: The Role of Education

John Donne said, “No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the Continent, a part of the main.” That sentiment, the concept of interdependence, is a huge part of why I do the work I do in Kenya with the organization I co-founded: Mekuno Project. The girls and women in the areas we work are having their rights taken away because of both a cultural ritual called Female Genital Mutilation (FGM), as well as child marriage. Mekuno Project is working every day to put a permanent end to both, with practical solutions. Education is one of the pillars of our holistic plan, and I’ll show you why in today’s blog.

FGM and Successfully Ending It 

If you’re unfamiliar, FGM involves the complete or partial removal of female sexual organs, serving as a mechanism to control girls’ sexual behavior. This horrendous ritual is largely performed between the ages of five and nine years old. FGM is viewed as a girl’s rite of passage into womanhood as well as a prerequisite for marriage. Mekuno Project knows there are better, safer alternatives. We have formulated and introduced Alternative Rites of Passage (ARP) in order to eliminate the need for FGM. However, that didn’t happen overnight. We have enjoyed success in the regions we work with a more than 90% drop in the prevalence of FGM in some communities. But if we want to see those results expand, we must understand the root causes of FGM and child marriage.

The WHY

You, like many others, may be wondering why female genital mutilation is still practiced if it’s such an awful, harmful thing. It’s because of what it affords a family. When girls are married, their families often receive a dowry. A dowry is usually in the form of money or livestock. In impoverished regions, the dowry can feel like the only viable option for a family to endure economic hardships. Many families regard this payment as the only secure source of income. As resources become scarcer, families become more desperate. This is why FGM gets practiced at younger ages. Mekuno Project has identified a way to combat this problem.

The Role of Education

Here in the United States school is something many take for granted. Our children are mandated to attend during a period of their lives in order to gain education and skills they will need in adulthood. For the girls in the regions we work, an education isn’t guaranteed, and for many it isn’t even likely! 

Access to quality education opens doors to previously unimaginable possibilities for a girl. Education has the power to break the cycle of poverty and stop the cycle of child marriage and FGM. When we visited Kenya to reveal the new school building they would be using, the entire experience shifted my perspective. I watched these girls jump with pure glee and delight at the realization that they would be afforded an opportunity to attend school. Suddenly, we all knew this wasn’t just about reading, math and science. It was as if we had given them the key that would unlock proverbial doors. These were the doors that had previously held freedom, security and empowerment captive. 

Freedom and Safety

Mekuno Project is determined to bring education to the girls and women in Kenya because the impact is SO great! Schools offer safe havens for girls in communities that practice FGM. Our studies show that the longer a girl stays in school, the less likely she is to be married. When a girl gets her education, she gains the ability to grow up and be a contributor to her community without the need for a dowry. She can go back into her village as a nurse or doctor and use her skills to bring resources to her family. Education helps mothers and fathers see that there is another way that doesn’t have to involve cutting.

The HOW

So now we know why education is so important in our quest to end FGM and child marriage, but we need to know how we bring it to fruition. Well, collaboration is the answer. Mekuno Project supports access to quality education via advocacy at local and national levels. Our partners collaborate with the Kenyan government to fulfill its legal mandate to ensure children have access to high-quality schooling. We also understand the need to consider those who are especially vulnerable. For those girls and boys we provide school fees and other personal supports such as Dignity Kits, school uniforms, and supplies, so they can stay in school and learn without interruption. We even work with the local governments to ensure there are menstruation washrooms, dormitories, rescue centers and access to clean water.

Education holds the key to a new life for not just individual girls and women, but for entire communities. Mekuno Project is dedicated to making it a reality for all of them, but we need your help! Please visit our website to learn more about what we do. Consider donating to this very important cause. Thank you in advance. Together, we can change lives. Let’s do that!

 

Moody Modern Breegan Jane Lighting

When you think of your favorite places on earth, what comes to mind? Is it what you do when you visit? Maybe it’s the beautiful scenery. Perhaps it’s the way you feel when you’re there. I talk about my favorite place all of the time. When I step off the plane in Ibiza, it’s almost as if I can breathe a little easier. My muscles relax and my heart rate slows. Simply put, my mood turns to bliss! The impact our surroundings have on us is undeniable. This is one of the biggest reasons why interior design matters so much. We want to feel good in our spaces. So is it any wonder that “moody modern” is having a moment right now? If you’re looking to add some lighting pizzazz to this cozy design styling, I’ve got the perfect pieces for you!

Moody Modern Matters

Moody Modern is characterized by rich hues, a darker color palette, intimate and cozy ambiance all wrapped up in a beautiful package that makes a space feel luxe. Think: a sexy den or parlor with gorgeous velvets and tufted furnishings. These factors culminate in the ultimate moody space with allure. Every element contributes, so selecting the right lighting can make or break your design. No worries, though. Let’s talk about a few that would be perfect for any moody modern space.

Venice by Breegan Jane

If you’re looking for a fixture that brings the moody AND the sparkle, Venice is for you. One look at the faceted crystal petals against the Metropolis Black finish will definitely have you swooning. Venice is a chandelier made of hammered metal. As if it’s not stunning enough, the inside is a hand-applied gold finish. With crystals on the ceiling canopy and a rich metallic inside, no matter the angle, Venice is guaranteed to wow.

Estrella Del Mar by Breegan Jane

Want to make a statement? Estrella Del Mar to the rescue! You probably don’t think of this profile when the word “chandelier” comes to mind. Estrella breaks the mold. Inspired by curling leaves of a rubber tree, this piece brings a natural element to your moody modern space. Finished in Burnished Gold on the inside, the leaves create a warm glow. That metallic is ideal against the moody Centura finish on the outside. Craftsmanship is unmistakable with these hand-applied finishes. Can you imagine this in a space with a bold wallpaper? I can!

Portinatx by Breegan Jane

A linear chandelier can really take “modern” to the next level, and Portinatx is exactly that. Who said florals couldn’t be edgy? This piece features cascading metal flowers made of hammered metal petals. Portinatx combines a hand-applied gold finish with a hand-applied Satin Black finish. It’s a perfect balance that will glow against a deeply hued painted wall. If you’re looking for a conversation piece, you’ve found it.

Heiress by Breegan Jane

I continue to be inspired by the Mediterranean, and Heiress absolutely embodies that. What a stately fixture! Heiress is a simple structure festooned with dramatically curving metal leaves that wear a hand-applied Patinated Bronze finish. This piece, aptly named, feels regal.

Turaco by Breegan Jane

Turaco is another light featuring the classic black and gold combination. It has three rows of petals with a hand-applied finish. Turaco brings the drama without overwhelming the room. It feels contemporary in profile without being trendy. 

No matter what you’re looking for in lighting for your Moody Modern space, you’re sure to find it in my collection with Savoy House! Add a statement piece with a deeper hue and watch your room transform. Let me know which is your favorite, and tag me if you decide to get one!

Financial Literacy For Kids

Conversations about money are often cited as some of the most uncomfortable to have. But they don’t have to be. I don’t want to raise sons who are ignorant of money matters or intimidated by them. I want my boys to have an appreciation for money, a strong work ethic to make it, and the wisdom to grow it. Most of all, I want them to have a life free of financial bondage. I prioritize financial literacy for kids because financial freedom is something everyone deserves, but not everyone has. I’ll tell you more in today’s blog.

It Starts at Home

Most of you know me as an interior designer, but the truth is I’ve been an entrepreneur for far longer than almost anything else. I realized I owe much of my success to my ability to grow money and build wealth. But I wasn’t born with those skills; I was taught them. A great deal of what I know about money came from my father, who was and still is a skilled investor. While my dad’s financial lessons for me as a young girl surpassed what I saw my peers learning, we all look back and believe we could have been doing more. Dad taught me a lot, but I’m very honest about coming from a place of privilege where I didn’t ever want for anything. I did, however, work for the money earned from modeling and auditions. More on that later. Money and its impacts were introduced to me early in life. I’m passing on that wisdom to my boys.

Why Money Matters

In today’s society we talk a lot about money. The discussions are usually around what you can buy with it, what you can achieve with it, and how it impacts your status. Those things absolutely carry weight, but they weren’t the basis for the financial education for my boys.

My boys come from a divorced household. As many parents in my position understand, that means our kids often receive multiple messages about money habits. They know mom’s approach, and they also know dad’s. I wanted my boys to develop their own relationship with money. I also wanted to be intentional about the lessons. Kids are getting messaging whether you want them to or not. They are inundated with images and themes around “rizz” and cars and bling. They are also absorbing our ideas and habits around money. It’s all there and you can’t avoid it.What we can do, however, is empower them with knowledge and strategy. That’s what financial literacy does.

Financial Freedom as a Goal

Jim Carrey once said, “I think everybody should get rich and famous and have everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that that’s not the answer.” 

I think that perfectly encapsulates why I believe financial literacy is so important. Money can absolutely make life easier. It is necessary for so many of our basic needs. But money isn’t the end all be all. Financial freedom is! Right now my kids are at the ages where their innocence and naivety around purchasing power is understandable. Requests like “Mom can we get a boat?” aren’t a result of them being spoiled, rather it’s more about the lack of financial literacy. It’s always been crucial for me that my boys see their mom working hard. Now, I realize they also need to connect the hard work to results.

Kingsley and Kensi might grow up and be in a position to buy a boat, or a nice home. Maybe they’ll be CEOs of major companies, who knows. That isn’t what I’m after. I don’t care if my sons choose to live extravagantly or lead simple, humble lives. I just want them to be able to make the choice, and be comfortable. Financial freedom is about having the ability to make your own choices with how you use and spend your money. That begins with knowing how to make and grow it.

Lessons in Financial Literacy

I have been quite thoughtful and deliberate when it comes to incorporating financial literacy into both life lessons and my sons’ curriculum. I don’t want money to feel intimidating or foreign to them, so we make it practical. One of the first things I did was take my boys to the bank, piggy banks in tow. We set up bank accounts at Chase Bank for each of them. Now, I could have done this without them, but I wanted them to see the process and understand what an actual “bank” is. This is money they save and don’t touch. Of course, being so young still, all of their needs are taken care of, so that part is fairly easy. But the concept of saving is something they can learn even now.

A Financial Advisor

One of the most helpful things I’ve done with the boys is hire a financial advisor who works for and with individual families in investing. I wanted someone willing to have conversations with them about financial literacy as a part of their tutoring schedule. She uses finance games to teach them about banking, stocks and even helps them develop fictitious business plans. If you’re able to take advantage of an advisor in this way, I highly recommend it.

Greenlight

Another tool of ours is the Greenlight app. It’s an all-in-one money app for families that allows kids to have their own debit cards, but in a way that parents can control. They are pre-loaded upfront, so there’s never a worry about running up a bill. My favorite feature is the “earn” element. I can list chores or jobs the kids can do in order to earn money. I get an alert each time something is accomplished, and the money goes into their account! It’s an excellent way to teach the value of work while also incentivizing them to do their chores.

Robinhood

Investing is a skill that even many adults don’t have. Robinhood is an app that makes it easy. Now, this one you have to be 18 to use, so I let my boys use my account and only under my supervision. I gave them each $100 to invest however they wanted, and they have fun logging in to check each day. It’s been interesting to watch them make certain decisions together and others individually. They are learning how stocks work, and how to invest wisely, all before their teenage years!

There are so many tools available to help kids become financially wise. We just have to prioritize it and be willing to help them understand it all. Sometimes simply buying your child a wallet and making him or her responsible for keeping up with the money inside is enough to get the ball rolling. Remember, while we need money for this life, financial freedom is what truly determines the quality of the life you live. That’s the lesson I hope my boys get as they learn more about how money is made. Check out these tools for your family!